Wednesday Night

Consumer and social

online dating

SHOW HN2013

72points
50comments
#350of 1,739 in 2013
Top 21%of 2013 by points

How HN took it

MixedNo clear lean

8 positive, 16 neutral or asking, 1 mixed, 9 critical, out of 34 comments about the project. Thread score -0.16.

Idea: 5 for, 5 againstPrivacy: 1 for, 2 againstPricing: 1 for, 2 againstExecution: 1 for, 0 against

The thread, comment by comment

Each row is a top-level comment and its replies, in HN's order. Select a cell to open that comment on HN.

positive neutral or mixed critical about another commenter or something else the maker

What HN said

What people liked

  • Matchmaking with a human in the loop is interesting

    From 2 comments
    • It is interesting that there's a human in the loop. It's sort of a Mechanical Turk approach to web dating, and notable because it's the opposite of sites like E-Harmony that…
      IvyMike on HN
    • I think I focused on the headline too much. Democratizing personalized matchmaking is interesting. I look forward to watching this play out.
      damoncali on HN
  • Makers respond to concerns well

    From 1 comment
    • Hey man, Just wanted to say you're doing an A+ job of responding to people's concerns here in the thread. People usually suck at this, too, but you've really got your shit down.…
      mtowle on HN

Objections

  • Facebook login raises privacy concerns

    From 3 comments
    • Just to give you one user's perspective (which honestly, by virtue of being a HN reader probably represents a very small fraction of general users); anytime I see a service that…
      disc on HN
    • I'd respectfully disagree. User testing generally shows a pretty strong aversion to and misunderstanding of Facebook Connect. Here's one such study:…
      callahad on HN
    • These dating/find-a-friend services that require Facebook show up often on HN, and like clockwork are berated because they are Facebook-only (and the privacy issues that go along…
      CodeFoo on HN
  • Price of $75 per date is too high

    From 3 comments
    • Grouper is growing like crazy and requires Facebook. This is basically Grouper, without the group, and way too expensive ($75 per date? Are you kidding?). I would also say much…
      goeric on HN
    • We at Truffle are building something similar but with linkedIn authentication - catering to working professionals. We tried doing work email verification but users revolted…
      pacifi30 on HN
    • Wednesday Night: I'd be tempted to sign up with Facebook and receive a reply on exactly what kind of person you'd try to connect me to, given what you glean from FB. If you got…
      bobwaycott on HN
  • Bar-centred dates exclude people who don't drink

    From 2 comments
    • This might be a weird comment, but the service seems very alcohol oriented - meeting at a bar, covering drinks. What about people who don't drink?
      cupcake-unicorn on HN
    • I don't think this service is for me at all. I'd prefer flexibility in places to meet and not having to resort to getting inebriated to meet someone :/ Coffee shops? I'm a girl,…
      cupcake-unicorn on HN
  • Only available in major US cities

    From 2 comments
    • So the 75 bucks is to cover the actual match making? Or are you sending people to some really fancy bars. How's that even work? I'm in Canada, You have deals with franchises…
      GhotiFish on HN
    • Do you exist in all zip codes of the US? If you are only supporting certain zip codes then I'm going to be real annoyed when I enter half a dozen questions and THEN you tell me…
      jerrya on HN

Requests

  • Offer non-Facebook sign-up options

    From 2 comments
    • Just to give you one user's perspective (which honestly, by virtue of being a HN reader probably represents a very small fraction of general users); anytime I see a service that…
      disc on HN
    • Have you all considered other methods of dealing with those issues? Its incredibly easy to make fake FB accounts these days and just based on many Disqus comment sections I have…
      BrianEatWorld on HN
  • Support more locations

    From 2 comments
    • So the 75 bucks is to cover the actual match making? Or are you sending people to some really fancy bars. How's that even work? I'm in Canada, You have deals with franchises…
      GhotiFish on HN
    • Do you exist in all zip codes of the US? If you are only supporting certain zip codes then I'm going to be real annoyed when I enter half a dozen questions and THEN you tell me…
      jerrya on HN

Questions

  • What happens when a match fails or someone is stood up

    From 1 comment
    • What happens when you can't set up a match? What happens if someone is stood up? What happens if you have a skewed ratio of men to women?
      jacques_chester on HN
  • How the gender ratio is handled

    From 2 comments
    • What happens when you can't set up a match? What happens if someone is stood up? What happens if you have a skewed ratio of men to women?
      jacques_chester on HN
    • Good questions. - If we can't setup a match, you are either being unrealistic with your expectations (you consistently pass too often on people who we think are a good fit), or…
      jmtame on HN

Alternatives named

  • Grouper

    From 2 comments
    • Grouper is growing like crazy and requires Facebook. This is basically Grouper, without the group, and way too expensive ($75 per date? Are you kidding?). I would also say much…
      goeric on HN
    • So it's Grouper, but for 2 people instead of 6, and unblinded?
      carbocation on HN
  • Truffle

    From 2 comments
    • We at Truffle are building something similar but with linkedIn authentication - catering to working professionals. We tried doing work email verification but users revolted…
      pacifi30 on HN
    • Have you seen this website? http://www.jointruffle.com Seems doing similar things but targeting different group of people.
      chenyuwang1988 on HN
  • Coffee Meets Bagel and How About We

    From 1 comment
    • We're not saying you have to drink something alcoholic, we're just saying whatever beverage you choose to drink, we'll cover it. Think of the bar as a neutral place in public to…
      jmtame on HN
  • Linx Dating

    From 1 comment
    • I've been on a few Groupers. The reason they ask you to bring friends is because they're setting you up on a blind date. If the blind date goes bad and there's no chemistry, your…
      jmtame on HN

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